Dr. Becky on Instagram: "If your kid is spiraling over a crush rumor, you might think, “Why is this such a big deal?” Here’s why: it’s not about the crush.⁠ ⁠ It’s about being seen before you’re ready to be seen. Kids feel exposed, spotlighted, revealed in a moment that felt private.⁠ ⁠ Remember that feeling from childhood? When a teacher praised your work in front of the class and everyone thought it was flattering, but inside, you felt mortified? That same dynamic is happening here.⁠ ⁠ So when